The death of integrity

I recently came across a witty line that was part of a political message: Stop truth decay! The thought has stuck with me. It is memorable and meaningful.

It is common knowledge that politics is a business that, for the most part, lacks integrity. Politicians will do or say almost anything to stay in office. Yet, there has never been much disagreement about the facts of a given situation. You may not like them or agree with them, but they are what they are. Until now.

Writing in The Week magazine, William Falk, editor, talks about A Moral Imperative to Deceive. He asserts that “there’s a growing bipartisan conviction that virtually anything — lying, cheating, and spying — is justified because, well, the other tribe is so evil.”

This “anything goes” attitude has become a widespread phenomenon. It belongs to politicians on both sides of the aisle. Most striking is that the new Democratic super-star, Representative Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez of New York, is more than comfortable with this deceit. Falk writes, “when (she) was recently questioned about her fuzzy math and exaggerated claims about Pentagon waste, she shot back, ‘There’s a lot of people more concerned about being precisely, factually, and semantically correct than about being morally right.’” In short, the end justifies the means. At 29, Alexandria Ocasio-Cortez may already be lost…

There is an old adage that all politics is local. Today, we can modify that and say that all politics is personal. The politicians are just the catalysts. The people who sign up for this view – that nothing matters but what we believe is the moral imperative, truth notwithstanding — spread the destruction of integrity.

Here’s the irony: Once you ignore the truth, and the facts that give rise to it, you lose the power of argument – the ability to put together a cogent and credible case to support your views. All you have left is opinion, mine vs. yours – a flimsy substitute for a well-reasoned claim. In essence, you have zilch.

There is nothing cool, admirable, or trustworthy about anyone who is afraid of the facts. No matter how much the truth may hurt, or not align with your priorities, it is the wellspring of integrity. Your ability to face the facts is a measure of your strength of character. And, at the end of the day, character and integrity are all you have.

Almost.

Where does integrity come from?

The roots of integrity and the character it spawns are found in your identity — the unique, value-creating characteristics that define the special contribution you are capable of making in the world. Your identity doesn’t come from your affiliations, or your labels — your gender, color, sexual orientation, religion, profession, etc. It comes from the core of your being, the ‘sacred center’ of what makes you human. This center — it resides in each of us — is fueled by a “truth” about who you are that is inviolable. It is this truth that gives rise to integrity.

When you step away from the truth in any form, what does that say about you? What is your identity then? Do you no longer need to be grounded in reality? When you lose touch with your essential identity, you lose touch with your humanity, your truth.

Having the courage to embrace the truth tells us a great deal about who we are. Without this foundation we become unmoored. We become separated not just from “the other side” but from ourselves. When you betray the truth, you betray yourself. When you diminish the truth, you diminish yourself. When you ignore the truth, you ignore yourself.

As there is with all ships, each of us has a keel that keeps us steady, even in the stormiest weather. Our identity is that keel, holding us secure as we navigate our personal journeys. It ensures that we possess the wherewithal to act with integrity. If that keel is lifted, or broken, we are in grave danger of hitting the rocks, no matter where we choose to aim our rudder.

Why do we fear the truth, the facts? Are we afraid they won’t work in our favor? If so, we are cowards; we lack the very moral requirement we now blithely invoke to support our actions.

Justifying lies, exaggeration and deceit, on the grounds of some high-minded moral imperative constitutes an ethical failure on the part of the individual who claims it. Doing so marks the end of integrity, for integrity is fueled by truth, no more, no less. When truth is gone, integrity dies.

And, so, does a part of you.

8 Comments
  • Insightful point of view — well said.

    January 22, 2019 at 3:17 pm
  • Daudi
    Reply

    Good one Larry

    January 23, 2019 at 12:53 pm
  • Sabrina Davies
    Reply

    Thank you Larry for giving voice to “universal truth.”

    January 25, 2019 at 3:55 pm
  • David Callen
    Reply

    Interesting article that stimulated my thinking!

    I’ve seen so many people struggle with defining facts, data, and truth. In the end our senses and brains can only perceive so much and therefore what you experience as fact can often differ from my version. When I distort that perception for my own gain I am exaggerating or lying. In those moments I may be out of integrity I may not.

    I define integrity as the beautiful alignment between ones values (truth or identity) and ones behavior (actions/words). Not all of us value speaking the truth. If I value winning above all else (current president) then I’d be in integrity with myself if my actions followed that value.

    I also believe in Carol Dwek’s articulation of the growth mindset. Therefore, there is hope for all of us to get back in integrity. To find our way. Isabel, me, you, Trump, none of us are lost, maybe only misguided or momentarily lost. That moment can be a day or a most of our lives. Not all hope is lost.

    January 26, 2019 at 4:26 pm

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